Holdontilmay vs ????

[holdontilmay]

I've found recently that the mods are the biggest problem here. Especially with point #2 made here. They want to control everything you say and how you think but then say "we accept all opinions" and when you suggest a way to fix the problem people jump down your throat. It really makes this site annoying and not enjoyable to come to. I come here to bring my input to what these moms are doing without being murdered through social media by minion but then when you do it here, you get multiple people telling you that your opinion is wrong and irrelevant because it isn't theirs. This really needs to be fixed here, its quite annoying and really makes all the mods seem like power hungry assholes

[blackbetty]

Okay first of all, the rules of the boxing ring say no boxing with mods. Second of all, in your warning, you were asked to review the rules, if you have an issue with a mod, pm them about it, don't spew your hissy fit all over a thread that isn't about you.

The reason you get mods on your case is because you choose to break the rules and as mods, it's our job to handle the situation. We were asked to be mods by Morgan because we are active on the site and helpful. But just because we're appointed as mods doesn't mean we no longer have the right to participate in the forum as posters. Not everyone is going to agree with you. Get the fuck over it.

[holdontilmay]

I was told to bring it to a different thread, so I did. I can't review the "rules" because I can't find them so oh well. Of course that's a "rule" because mods do no wrong, right?

[blackbetty]

I didn't make the rules so idk what you're on about.

Here are the rules, please review them because you're out of warnings. http://Www.ytmommadrama.com/rules.php?

The mods are not wrong for doing what they were appointed to do which is moderate. We are also allowed to participate as members of the forum and the majority of the mods were chosen because they are active, helpful, and get along with the other posters. You have never been told to shut up with your unpopular opinions and it isn't our fault people don't like your opinions either. The only times you have ever been asked to stop is when either a) it has erupted into a fight amongst members that is taking up the thread and making it off topic or b) you are whining about people not agreeing with you making the thread off topic. You have never been attacked by the mods. I warned you once on the thread when you pulled this stunt and when you continued, you got a formal warning. Cry about it. The rules do apply to you, and frankly you should thank Kryptonite and Yue because they both had the authority to ban you based on your stunt on the Jess thread earlier - the mods let a lot of stuff slide... Trust me.

You really need to chill. No one has a personal vendetta against you, you just need to learn to accept that not everyone is going to agree with what you say. It's the nature of an open forum. You were censored only because you were taking the thread off topic. Get over yourself, mmmkay?

[holdontilmay]

Did I call you out by name? Did I @ any mods? No. I mentioned that some mods are power hungry and abuse their power. If you are a mod, or anyone else for that matter, they would be respectful and not abuse their power. I've stated multiple times that I DONT CARE OF YOH DONT AGREE WITH ME. I do however find it quite annoying with moderators preach about being accepting of everyone and all opinions but bash anyone with an unpopular opinion. Which you clearly do this, this would be exhibit b. I realize I took a thread off topic so I moved threads. To where you can vent. The first post in this thread very clearly states exactly what you and several others have been doing. Trying to tell me what I can and can not say. And I quote "don't loose your shit over the opinion of someone else" so everyonethat disagreed with my should really read that and soak it up. I don't give a shit of you all don't agree with me but you all clearly really care that I don't agree with you

[fortwendy]

Did I call you out by name? Did I @ any mods? No. I mentioned that some mods are power hungry and abuse their power. If you are a mod, or anyone else for that matter, they would be respectful and not abuse their power. I've stated multiple times that I DONT CARE OF YOH DONT AGREE WITH ME. I do however find it quite annoying with moderators preach about being accepting of everyone and all opinions but bash anyone with an unpopular opinion. Which you clearly do this, this would be exhibit b. I realize I took a thread off topic so I moved threads. To where you can vent. The first post in this thread very clearly states exactly what you and several others have been doing. Trying to tell me what I can and can not say. And I quote "don't loose your shit over the opinion of someone else" so everyonethat disagreed with my should really read that and soak it up. I don't give a shit of you all don't agree with me but you all clearly really care that I don't agree with you

Before I really respond, how did a mod abuse their power?

[blackbetty]

I didn't say that so idk where you got that from. Who abused their power? I'm really interested in knowing. Our job is to make sure things run smoothly and people follow the rules. There are very few rules about what you can and can't say.
1) it can't be explicitly sexual - some people don't want to read that and we have minors here.
2) no racial or ethnic slurs - pretty self explanatory.
3) you can say cunt but it is auto censored by the forum coding.
4) threads have to stay on topic - they often go off on a tangent and we usually let it slide unless it is way out of hand or is just members arguing with each other
5) disagreeing and arguing are two different things - occasionally members have been asked to stop discussing an issue because it is getting too heated - circumcision, vaccination, and breastfeeding sometimes get too heated and when that happens, people are asked to take the topic to another thread and tone it down.

That is our JOB. I'm sorry it puts your panties in a wad, but that is what Morgan appointed us to do. Personally, when I'm in mod mode, I make my text purple because while I'm a moderator, I'm also a poster here for nearly 2.5 years and I can participate in discussions as a regular poster if I want to. Furthermore, the mods here are generally well liked until someone gets upset that they were warned either verbally in a post or message or an actual warning (which by the way, when you got your actual warning, you had been warned to knock it off by the mods in the thread so it was beyond warranted.)

I'm sorry you're so unhappy here, but your choices are to deal and participate like a normal poster and follow the rules or we can show you the door. Your choice.

[blackbetty]

This really needs to be its own thread so I'm gonna move the posts to this one. I can update the title if you wanna tell me who you are fighting with, HOTM. I'm just really not sure tbh.

[holdontilmay]

Hahahahahaha what a dumb bitch

[holdontilmay]

I'm glad I bother you enough to make a thread about me. I'm truely flattered. Now how about you fix the issue and not fuel the fire? And be a helpful mod as you say you are

[blackbetty]

Call me a bitch again and see what happens.

You are completely out of line. What the fuck is your problem?

Please fucking tell me what I can do to fix your "issue" because I'm at a loss here. I don't know what you want me to do for you. Do you want me to tell people they have to agree with you? Do you want me to go yell at posters that don't agree with you? What the bloody hell is your problem?

[holdontilmay]

Go back and look at the origin of this. It all started cause I asked a mod to fix an issue with people putting personal information on here.

Aww its so cute to see you so flustered by this. Why don't you get over it? Not everyone is going to agree with you.

See what I did there. Using that to "moderate to help people" doesn't fucking work now does it?

[holdontilmay]

Please learn to comprehend what you read (if you even read it at all cause it seem you keep saying the same pointless shit) I DO NOT CARE THAT PEOPLE DONT AGREE WITH ME. THIS WAS STARTED BECAUSE PEOPLE WERE POSTING PERSONAL INFO OF PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT YT MOMS AND THAT SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED HERE.

[blackbetty]

Go back and look at the origin of this. It all started cause I asked a mod to fix an issue with people putting personal information on here.

Aww its so cute to see you so flustered by this. Why don't you get over it? Not everyone is going to agree with you.

See what I did there. Using that to "moderate to help people" doesn't fucking work now does it?

You are grabbing at straws here but I will entertain this complaint as I did the first time and as Kryptonite also did the first time.

Just because something is an issue to you doesn't mean we have to do as you say. The information is PUBLIC. RECORD. It doesn't have any "personal information" other than already public last names. There are no phone numbers or addresses which would jeopardize the safety of the YTer. We will not be removing it.

Next issue?

And make it snappy so we can move forward with the mute you're hellbent on.

[holdontilmay]

I would like to know how it was "irrelevant to a thread" when the thread was about members bashing others when in fact that's EXACTLY what it is about. So how is that irrelevant?

[blackbetty]

It was about a different issue entirely that you weren't present for. This issue is an issue you clearly have with the mods here.

You have not, to date, been bashed by anyone. You clearly can't handle people who have a different opinion than you do and to continue to participate here, you're gonna need some thicker skin, Hun. Next?

[holdontilmay]

I was only trying to suggest the issue of people posting on social media about that information. If you don't want people posting on jess' instragram about legal matter DONT ALLOW IT HERE. This place is the main source for all drama spilled on social media. I suggest stop it at the source and we(the members of this site) won't be to blame. But I was bashed and told my opinion was irrelevant

[holdontilmay]

Blackbettybamf- if you are going to talk to me as a mod please be mature about it or else it just makes you look stupid. It makes you seem highly immature and power struck. If you want to be a cunt(you said that word is allowed) to me do it in a message since you love suggesting that

[blackbetty]

Posting on people's social media, while discouraged, is not against the rules. It is discouraged because posting things with the sole intention of provoking someone is harassment which is against the law. Posting public record on an open forum is not harassment.

Bashing would be if someone called you ugly or stupid, neither of which happened, nor did anything of that nature happen or the user would have received a punishment for it. saying what you said is irrelevant is a fact and it isn't "bashing" you. It WAS irrelevant, especially since you continued on and on and on after you were dissatisfied with the answer you received. Next?

[holdontilmay]

If you are going to allow people to post legal info here don't bitch and complain when crazies go and post it on social media. Plain and simple. Either stop it at the source or don't complain. You have the power to not allow legal matter here but refuse to change that. Sorry I think a forum should not allow legal information. Wow. The morals of you all are so fucked up